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Summer Strategies for Autism Families

Shannon Des Roches Rosa www.thinkingautismguide.com www.squidalicious.com Summer. Now there’s a word that terrifies parents of school-aged kids with autism. We do not necessarily associate the word with “break.” For us, summer means potential implosion of carefully orchestrated school, services, and respite schedules — and the resulting scrambling and scraping to make new arrangements. My son Leo’s last day of fourth grade was Friday, and I am fretting. He is in such a beautiful space in his wonderful new school — progressing on his IEP goals, excited to get on the school bus every morning, arriving home trailed by email reports of successful, action-filled classroom days. Getting him to this point has taken months of routine-reinforced effort. I’m worried that summer will undo it all. Children with autism work hard to gain skills during the school year, and that learning can quickly slip away without ongoing, reinforcing learning opportunities. This means…

Church With the Special Needs Child

Amanda Broadfoot www.lifeisaspectrum.com We found a church today. At least, I’m pretty sure we have. We’ve been looking for a while, and talk about finding something right under your nose: We ended up at the same place where we’ve been attending Kindermusik every Wednesday night for the past five months, Good Samaritan United Methodist. Dave went to the nursery with Billy and Willow to help ease Billy into his new surroundings. We explained to the nursery staff that Billy is autistic, and they were all just wonderful. After an initial, brief meltdown over the sight of Mama high-tailin’ it to the grownups’ room, Billy apparently settled in very nicely. At coloring time, he helpfully shared his orange crayon with everyone — whether or not they wanted a bit of orange on their drawing — and serenaded the whole class with a couple of verses of “Jesus Loves Me.” I got…